30 Random Acts of Kindness in 30 Days - and then some! - Will Cook For Friends (2024)

I’ve always been a big believer in the little things – those tiny moments that are the building blocks of everything else. Sometimes it’s those little things that mean the most, because they shape the world around us, and make it what it is. I think it’s easy to feel small, or insignificant, but whether we notice it or not we can and do affect the things around us. We also have the ability to decide what kind of impact we make, and I think that is a pretty powerful thing.

I’m pretty good at being cynical about the world, because I look around and see so many things I cannot change… but then I look again, and in fact, there are many things I can. Perhaps I cannot change the things I see, but I can change the way I see them… and by changing me, I can change the things around me, in little ways.

Hand-in-hand with Random Acts of Kindness is the idea of paying it forward – when someone does something for you, you try to pass it on when the moment arises – and by doing so, one small thing begins to spread out in ripples, ever larger. And thus, by changing ourselves, we change the world.

Of course, there are a lot of things that can’t be solved so simply. But I think adding a dash of kindness to our day-to-day lives is certainly a good place to start.

Doing Random Acts of Kindness has always held a special place in my heart, because they are a shining example of how important the small things in life can be. They don’t have to be big, or time consuming, or expensive, or difficult to do in any way… they can be as simple as telling someone you appreciate them, or offering to lend a hand. Sometimes the smallest gesture can mean the world.

When I first started my thirty-day challenge, I was excited to think about what I would do each day, and hoped it would help me get into the habit of doing small things for others. I soon found that in order to do one each and every day, they would have to be a little more planned out, and less random, than I had first anticipated. Looking back, I’m so pleased to have done all of the kindnesses I did – the big ones, and the small ones – but my favorites are the spontaneous ones, and often the simplest.

There’s an old saying that a candle loses nothing by lighting another candle, meaning that giving to someone else doesn’t have to take away from yourself, and in fact, makes the whole world a little brighter. I hope that I’ve lit a few candles this month, and inspired others to do the same.

These are my thirty days of kindness, and at the end I’ve included a list of some of the things other people did this month. If you’d like to add anything to the list, please leave them in the comments at the bottom of the page!

30 Random Acts of Kindness in 30 Days

(and then some!)

1. Went to the library and stuck notes inside books for people to find.

“Hi! I don’t think we’ve met, but based on your choice of literature I think we would make great friends.”

2. Noticed a car with an “Iraq Veteran” licence plate, and left this note on their windshield: “Thank you for serving our country and taking risks so we can have our freedom. Welcome back!”

(Special thanks to The Fiance on this one – totally his idea!)

3. Made this flier and posted it on a public bulletin board. I’d like to say this was an original idea of mine, but I’m not that brilliant. I thought I might have trouble finding a spot big enough for it on the board, but there was a big open space just perfect for it! I went back a week later and saw that all but a few of the tabs had been taken.

Take What You Need – Give What You Can

4. Went to the dollar store and hid some dollar bills among the toys in the kids section. I wish I’d had a little more time to stick around and see some happy faces!

5. Put together a bunch of care packages to give out to homeless people. Each bag contains almost a day’s worth of food (granola bars, poptarts), a warm pair of socks, toothbrush, toothpaste, deodorant, shampoo, other hygiene stuff, and a note. It cost me around five dollars a piece to put them together, and I figure if I give a homeless person five dollars, even in the best case scenario (not getting spent on booze/drugs) it wouldn’t stretch this far.

6. Made these Chewy Ginger Granola Bites and gave them away to friends and neighbors. They got many rave reviews!

(Click the image to be redirected to the recipe)

7. This was my birthday, so I found all of the places around town that give away free stuff on your birthday and gave them to other people. One was a free truffle from the Schakolad Chocolate Factory – I asked the woman next to me if she wanted a free chocolate, explained that it was my birthday, and got her the one she wanted. It was just a little truffle, but she was so excited that I’d given away my freebie to her. It clearly made her day!

8. Made a donation to Random Acts of Oatmeal – they send packages of their oatmeal to food banks across the US. You can check them out, or make a donation, here: Mad Hectic Oatmeal

9. Took some homemade goodies to my favorite coffee shop barista’s. The Fiance and I have a routine of going out to get coffee on the weekends, and whenever I have extra baked goods I bring them some to make those long weekend hours they work a little nicer.

10. Made these “awesome cards” to hand out to people when the moment strikes. Some of them were inspired by cards I’ve seen around the internet, some of them I made up. My favorite is the one in the middle, which says “Hello – not to seem like a stalker or anything, but I couldn’t help but notice that you have a pretty serious case of the awesome. Please be aware that it may be contagious, and that anyone you have come into contact with may now be affected as well. You might want to inform them by passing along this card.”

11. Made a huge batch of this Enchilagna (a cross between enchiladas and lasagna) for some friends of mine. I believe it fed them well for a few days!

(Click the image to be redirected to the recipe)

12. Printed off a bunch of coupons and left them next to the appropriate items in the store. I was later informed by a friend of mine that when store employees find these, they’re supposed to throw them away… I can only hope the customers got to them first! Just in case, I decided to do another one to make up for it, and left change on parking meters for people to use. I also put a couple quarters in someone’s meter that had expired… it’s fifty cents to me, but could’ve been a big ticket for them!

13. This is kind of a twofer. I bought this hand-made pendant (rose quartz wrapped in copper) from a man on the street trying to start his own business (more accurately, selling things to keep from begging). His work was beautiful, and of similar quality to that of many big-time artists I know! Part two of this act is, I sent the pendant to a friend of mine who’s going through a hard time. Rose quartz is meant to represent love and healing, and I know it was much appreciated!

14. Wrote a bunch of love-notes and slipped them into the breast-pockets of The Fiance’s work shirts, so every day he’ll have a little reminder of how much I care.

(You may commence awww-ing now.)

15. Donated a bunch of clothes and shoes to the Salvation Army. I try to do this whenever I have extra stuff lying around, or donate directly to shelters when I have warm coats or blankets to get rid of. Reduce, recycle, reuse!

16. This was the day before St. Patty’s. I put together these little packages of chocolate coins, adorned with leprechaun hats and tags that said “Lucky You!” on them, and went around town handing them out / hiding them for people to find. Some highlights of the day were when I stumbled across the “Cloverleaf Restaurant” (had to leave one there!), and also, while I was in a little cafe, there was a table with two drinks on it and two coats on the seats, but the people had momentarily left the table, so I set one right between their drinks for them to find. I sat across the cafe and got to see them come back, and their faces just lit up!

17. Made a small sign with this quote on it, and left it in a busy public place: “Be soft. Do not let the world make you hard. Do not let the pain make you hate. Do not let the bitterness take away from your sweetness. Take pride that even though the rest of the world may disagree, you still believe it to be a beautiful place.” – Kurt Vonnegut (Sorry, no picture of this one!)

18. I tracked down an old babysitter of mine (the most awesome babysitter ever) and wrote a long letter telling him what a great impression he made on me, how fondly I remember him, and thanking him for being such an awesome part of my childhood. It’s been fifteen plus years, so hopefully my sleuthing skills have come up with the right address and my letter reaches him!

19. I noticed a bunch of these coin vending machines at the store, with toys/stickers/candy in them, and filled all the slots with quarters. I remember begging my mom for change when I was a kid just for the chance to get something out of there!

20. Baked Chocolate Chip Cookies and mailed them individually to friends of mine with this note: “Sometimes me thinks, “what is friend?” and then me say, “friend is someone to share the last cookie with.” – Cookie Monster”

(Click the image to be redirected to my post on how to make Cookie Monster Cookies)

21. Left a little gift for our mail person.

22. Left a surprise present on my neighbors doorstep.

I’m not saying it’s cookies, but… it’s probably cookies.

23. Bought some flowers and tied these cute little “Please Enjoy This Random Act of Kindness” tags to them, and went around parking lots sticking them in door handles. On the opposite side of the tags I wrote “have a great day!”. I hung out and got to see one guy come back to his car – a US army man in full attire – he was nervous at first and kept looking around, then he read the note and smiled!

(You can find the printable for these awesome little tags here: Thumba-Lea)

24. Bought a Starbucks gift card, wrote “buy a coffee, on me!” on it, and left it on the counter for the person in line behind me. I got nervous and ran out of there too fast to see their reaction, though – whoops!

25. Volunteered for Food Gatherer’s, a local non-profit hunger-fighting organization which provides food for over 40,000 people each year, and some 15,000 meals per day. I’ve always tried to support them with food and money donations, but finally I made it a priority to donate my time. I will definitely be going back to volunteer again soon!

26. Gave blood at the Red Cross. This is something I’ve been meaning to do for ages. Everything went smoothly, so now I’ll have a donor card and can donate again soon.

27. Had a couple of punch cards (every time you buy something you get the card stamped, and after a certain number you get one free) that were full, so I gave them away to people going into the places where they could be used. One was for a free lunch at a pretty nice restaurant downtown – the guy I gave it too was a little confused at first, but was really excited when he realized I was being serious. “No, really, I want you to have it” – haha!

28. Donated a huge box of stuffed animals and beanie babies from my childhood to the local Fire Department. They take gently used toys and dolls to help comfort children who have been in traumatic situations, and were so pleased and gracious when I showed up!

29. Taped a couple of dollars to a vending machine with the note, “Happy Spring! Please enjoy a treat, on me!”

30. The day before Easter! I found a bunch of these tiny plastic Easter eggs at the dollar store, and filled them with little handwritten notes. Then I went downtown and hid them all over the place – in window boxes, potted plants, ledges, trees – I even slipped one into somebody’s hoodie (right in the hood) when they had their back turned. Sneaky me!

Be-YOU-tiful!

31+ Throughout the month, many other people joined in on my challenge – thank you all so much for participating! Here are a few of their Random Acts of Kindness:

• bought lunch for a homeless person

• wrote thank-you notes to people in their lives

• walked a friend’s dog for them

• offered a ride to a friend

• let people go in line ahead of them

• donated money to various charities

• paid the toll for the person behind them on the turnpike

• a couple people got inspired by my “take what you need” sign, and made their own

• bought a gift card for the person in line behind them

• gave away free concert tickets

• helped someone carry a heavy load

• left quarters next to vending machines

• donated dog food to the humane society

• gave sincere compliments

• donated books to local schools

• brought food to a friend who had an injured leg and was having trouble getting around

• one person got out of their car at a busy intersection to help a blind man who was trying to cross the street

• helped a woman on a scooter at the grocery store reach an item she wanted

• made a habit of letting people go onto the bus ahead of them

• folded a paper crane with the note “have a lovely day” written on it, and left it in a public place

• volunteered for various organizations

• gave financial support to a friend

• shoveled snow off the neighbors driveway/sidewalk

• called to chat with an old friend

• wrote kind letters to family members

• gave a very generous tip to their waiter

• took time to listen more

• sent flowers to someone

• made an effort to be a nicer driver

• brought pies into work on pi day

• donated clothes to goodwill and other charities

• watched a friend’s kids for them

• made dinner for someone who had just had a baby

…and the list goes on!

My 30 Days of RAKs may be over, but there is no way I’m stopping there. If you’ve ever done a Random Act of Kindness, or had one done to you, please spread the love and share it in the comments below!